My views on the Pride March
November 11, 2007
I shall clarify my reasons as to not being interested in the Pride March over the following paragraphs.
People (not just you Luke, a few) imply that I come across as somewhat closed-minded for not attending the Pride March, having never been. I have concluded that it is not my ‘thing’ and have reached this decision without experiencing it first-hand: yes.
However, I put this down to their (Feast’s) communication tools. These tools are used to attract consumers to their product – in this instance, attendees to their event. The way the attempts have affected me is to see the march as being a small-town Mardi Gras. The Mardi Gras comes across as a festival of sex; sexual innuendoes; bears in leather; twinks in hot-pants; dykes on bikes: stereotypes.
I’m not particularly closed to these types of people. They can do as they please. That’s entirely their right. I just feel that when used to create awareness of the gay community it’s entirely counter-productive. The whole spectacle puts the community in the light of being about the aforementioned stereotypes.
I understand the meaning of the march and Feast as a whole. We’ve come far: yes. We deserve to be treated as equals: yes.
Overall, I think my views here reflect the power of promotion. Here is an example:
If a restaurant presents itself a certain way (serving Italian food), one sets expectations (to consume Italian food) and will only be satisfied if those expectations are met or exceeded (they actually get Italian food). After being effected by the communications tools that Feast have used for the march I expect it to be about the stereotype I have explained. And sure, we shouldn’t judge a book by its cover but a lot of my decision-making-process has become moot as my mind has been made up for me, so to speak.
OMG. Totally agree yet again. Yes, hasn’t the community come far, we now promote all the stupid stereotypes and force them upon the rest of society in the form of a parade… WOW how fan-fucking-tastic. Then we complain about the hatred society gives us, when we wear bright pink, dress like chicks and act totally flamboyant…mmmm thats normal. Pfft
Way to go paul!!!! secretly I didnt go to the feast due the reasons you have described, and I will never go unless my boyfriend really pushes me. The parade is pushing the stereotypical gay people, what about the gay people who are sensible normal everyday citizens who want to go about their life? Instead we are cornered and told we are too close minded and need to open up to the bears/twinks/etc Is not the whole idea of a parade to accept “ALL” people, and to help others accept us? Instead the community has become separated in itself, picking who they do and don’t like based on their own interests and ideals. Anyway thats my 2c